How to Clean Sex Toys: The Ultimate Safety Guide & Tips (2026)

📝 Introduction

Let’s be real: cleaning up is the least sexy part of the experience. After an amazing orgasm, the last thing you want to do is march to the bathroom and scrub your gadgets.

But knowing how to clean sex toys correctly is non-negotiable.

Skipping this step doesn’t just make your toys smell funky; it can lead to Bacterial Vaginosis (BV), yeast infections, or UTIs. Worse, using the wrong cleaning method can destroy your expensive [best quiet vibrators] by melting the material or short-circuiting the motor.

In this ultimate guide, we will break down exactly how to wash, dry, and store your collection based on the material, so you can play safely for years to come.

🛑 Step 0: Know Your Material (Porous vs. Non-Porous)

Before you touch water, you must know what your toy is made of. This determines the cleaning method.

1. Non-Porous Materials (The Good Stuff)

• Examples: 100% Medical-Grade Silicone, ABS Plastic, Glass, Stainless Steel.
• Why it’s safe: The surface is smooth and sealed. Bacteria sits on top and can be washed away easily.
• Products: Most high-end toys like [Lovense Lush 3] and Womanizer Premium.

2. Porous Materials (The Risky Stuff)

• Examples: TPE, TPR, Jelly, “Cyber Skin” (often found in cheap dildos or fleshlights).
• Why it’s tricky: These materials have microscopic holes. Bacteria and fluids can seep inside the toy, making them impossible to fully sterilize.
• Rule: Thorough washing is critical, and you should never share these toys.

🚿 How to Clean Silicone & Waterproof Toys (The Easy Way)

If you own premium toys like the [We-Vibe Nova 2] or Lovense Edge 2, cleaning is simple because they are typically IPX7 waterproof.

Step 1: The Soap & Water Method

1. Rinse: Run the toy under warm water to remove bodily fluids and lube.
2. Lather: Apply a generous amount of unscented antibacterial soap or a specialized Sex Toy Cleaner.
   • Warning: Do not use hand soap with essential oils or alcohol, as they can degrade silicone over time.
3. Scrub: Gently rub the toy with your hands for 20 seconds. Pay attention to ridges, buttons, and charging ports.
4. Rinse Again: Wash off all the suds.

Step 2: The Boiling Method (Optional Deep Clean)

For solid silicone or stainless steel toys (like the Njoy Pure Wand) that have no motors/batteries, you can boil them in water for 5-10 minutes to kill 100% of bacteria.

• Note: Never boil a vibrator with a battery!

⚠️ How to Clean Non-Waterproof or “Splash-Proof” Toys

Some older wands or remote controls are not fully submersible.

1. Do NOT Dunk: Never submerge these in the sink. Water will get into the battery compartment and kill the motor.
2. Use a Damp Cloth: Wet a washcloth with warm soapy water and wipe the toy down thoroughly.
3. Toy Cleaner Spray: This is the safest bet. Spray the cleaner onto the toy, let it sit for 10 seconds, and wipe off with a clean towel.

🍆 How to Clean Fleshlights & TPE Toys (Porous)

Male masturbators like the Fleshlight Quickshot require extra care because TPE is porous and sticky.

1. Remove the Sleeve: Always take the soft sleeve out of the plastic case.
2. Warm Water Flush: Run plenty of warm water through the channel.
3. Use Toy Cleaner: Apply cleaner generously inside and out.
4. Cornstarch (The Secret Step): TPE gets sticky after washing. Once dry, sprinkle Renewing Powder (Cornstarch) over the toy to restore its soft, smooth texture.

🛍️ Shopping Guide: Easy-to-Clean Recommendations

If you hate the hassle of cleaning, buy toys that are 100% Waterproof and made of Silicone. Here are our top picks for low-maintenance hygiene:

• Easiest to Clean (Wearable): [Lovense Lush 3]. It is seamless silicone and fully submersible.
• Easiest to Clean (Men’s): [Fleshlight Quickshot]. The open-ended design allows water to flow straight through, drying instantly.
• Easiest to Clean (Suction): [Womanizer Premium 2]. The nozzle is removable, allowing you to clean the inside easily.

📦 Drying & Storage: The Final Step

Cleaning is only half the battle. Storing them wet promotes mold growth.

• Air Dry: Let them sit on a clean towel until bone dry.
• Separate Them: Never store silicone toys touching TPE/Jelly toys. They will chemically react and melt into a sticky mess.
• Use Bags: Store each toy in its own satin or cotton pouch (most premium brands include one).

❓ FAQ: Common Cleaning Questions

Can I use dishwasher soap?

Technically yes, but it can be harsh on your skin if residue is left behind. A mild, unscented hand soap or specific Toy Cleaner is much better.

Can I put sex toys in the dishwasher?

Only if they are solid silicone/glass/metal AND have no motors/batteries. Never put a vibrator in the dishwasher; the heat and water pressure will destroy the seals.

How often should I clean them?

Every single time. Before and after use. “Before” removes dust; “After” removes fluids.

🏁 Final Thoughts

Knowing how to clean sex toys isn’t just about hygiene; it’s about protecting your investment. A well-cared-for Lovense or We-Vibe can last for years.

If you are looking to upgrade your collection to high-quality, easy-to-clean silicone, check out our guide on the [Best Wand Vibrators in 2026] for some waterproof, body-safe options.