📝 Introduction
Learning how to make yourself squirt is often surrounded by myths, but it is actually a learnable skill. Let’s talk about the elephant in the room: Squirting looks effortless in movies, but in reality, it requires specific techniques.
Many women believe they “just aren’t built for it.” I used to be one of them. But here is the truth: Squirting isn’t a magic trick, and it isn’t limited to a lucky few. It is a biological function of the Skene’s Glands that anyone can unlock with the right technique—and more importantly, the right mindset.
In this guide, I’m going to teach you exactly how to make yourself squirt, how to overcome the mental block of “peeing,” and which toys act as a cheat code for your body.
📍 The Anatomy: What is Actually Happening?
Before you grab a towel, you need to know what you are aiming for.
- The Liquid: It isn’t just pee (though there is some component). It is mostly fluid produced by the Skene’s Glands (often called the female prostate).
- The Trigger: These glands surround the urethra and are stimulated through the G-Spot (the spongey area on the front wall of the vagina).
- The Feeling: When these glands fill up, they press against the bladder. This creates an intense sensation of “needing to pee.”
💡 The Secret: That “I need to pee” feeling? That is the squirt waiting to happen. Most women stop there because they are afraid of making a mess. To squirt, you have to push into that feeling, not pull away from it.
🛠️ Preparation: Setting the Scene
You cannot squirt if you are worried about your mattress. Anxiety kills the release.
- Empty Your Bladder: Go to the bathroom right before you start. This tricks your brain. If you feel pressure later, you will know it’s not just a full bladder, giving you permission to let go.
- The Towel Trick: Put down a dark, thick towel (or a waterproof sex blanket). Knowing you can make a mess without consequences is 90% of the battle.
- Lube: You need slickness. Squirting requires vigorous G-spot stimulation. Without lube, you’ll just get sore.
🚀 Technique: How to Make Yourself Squirt (Step-by-Step)
Using just fingers is hard. The most reliable way to learn how to make yourself squirt is the “Clit + G-Spot” combo.
Step 1: The Warm-Up (Clitoral)
You cannot squirt from a cold start. The internal spongey tissue needs to be engorged with blood to become sensitive.
- Action: Stimulate your clitoris first. Get yourself to the brink of a regular orgasm.
- Toy Tip: Don’t waste energy using your hand. Use a suction toy like the [Womanizer Premium 2]. Its rapid air pulses pull blood into the area faster than anything else.
Step 2: The Hook (G-Spot)
Once you are highly aroused, insert two fingers (palm up) or a curved toy.
- Action: Find the rough, walnut-like texture on the front wall. Use a “come-hither” motion.
- The Rhythm: Don’t just press; drag your fingers or the toy firmly against the ridges.
Step 3: The “Push” (The Crucial Moment)
As you approach orgasm, you will feel a heavy, full pressure. Your brain will scream “Stop! I’m going to pee!”
- Do NOT stop.
- The Push: Instead of clenching your pelvic floor (Kegel) like you do for a regular orgasm, take a deep breath and bear down. Push out exactly like you are trying to force out urine.
- The Release: It feels counter-intuitive, but pushing out while stimulating the G-spot is what opens the glands.
🧘♀️ Best Positions for Squirting
Gravity is your friend.
1. The “Edges” (Missionary Variant)
Lie on your back with your hips propped up on a pillow, or scoot your bum to the edge of the bed with feet on the floor.
- Why: It tilts your pelvis, making the G-spot more accessible and opening the urethra.
2. Doggy Style (Face Down)
Kneel on the bed, head down, bum up.
- Why: Gravity pulls the liquid toward the exit. It is often the easiest position to achieve the “gush.”
🏆 The “Cheat Codes”: Best Toys for Squirting
Let’s be real: fingers cramp. It is hard to maintain the intense, rhythmic pressure needed to squirt manually. These toys do the heavy lifting for you.
1. The “Sonic” Trigger: LELO Sona 2 Cruise
Standard vibration just shakes the skin. The LELO Sona 2 uses sonic waves that permeate deep into the tissue.
- Why it works for squirting: The deep resonance vibrates the Skene’s glands directly, helping them release fluid even if you aren’t perfectly hitting the G-spot. It stimulates the entire internal structure from the outside.
2. The G-Spot Hunter: We-Vibe Rave 2
If you are using the “internal” method, the Rave is superior to fingers.
- Why it works: Its asymmetrical head is perfectly angled to hook the G-spot. You can apply firm, consistent pressure against the anterior wall without your wrist getting tired.
3. The Pre-Game Master: Womanizer Premium 2
As mentioned in Step 1, you need blood flow.
- Why it works: Nothing engorges the tissues faster than Pleasure Air. Using this for 5 minutes before you start internal play makes the G-spot swell up, making it easier to find and stimulate.
❓ FAQ: Squirting Myths Busted
Q: Is it just pee?
A: No. While it comes from the urethra and may contain traces of urine components (urea), chemical analysis shows it contains PSA (Prostate Specific Antigen), an enzyme not found in urine. It is a distinct fluid.
Q: Why can’t I do it?
A: You might be “guarding.” If you are subconsciously tightening your muscles to hold back pee, you are locking the door. You have to mentally give yourself permission to make a mess.
Q: Does it happen every time?
A: No. Even for women who can squirt, it doesn’t happen with every single orgasm. It depends on hydration, cycle, and arousal levels. Drink a big glass of water 20 minutes before playing!
🧠 Final Verdict
Learning how to make yourself squirt is about letting go of control. It’s messy, primal, and incredibly relieving.
Don’t obsess over the result. Focus on the sensation of “fullness.”
- Step 1: Get incredibly aroused with a [Womanizer].
- Step 2: Stimulate the G-spot with a [We-Vibe Rave].
- Step 3: When you feel the urge to pee, PUSH.
💡 Want more G-Spot tips?
Check out our detailed guide on The Best G-Spot Positions to help you find the right angle.
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